To live in a manner worthy of our human dignity, and to spend our final days on this earth in peace and comfort, surrounded by loved ones—that is the hope of each of us. In particular, Christian hope sees these final days as a time to prepare for our eternal destiny.
Today, however, many people fear the dying process. They are afraid of being kept alive past life’s natural limits by burdensome medical technology. They fear experiencing intolerable pain and suffering, losing control over bodily functions, or lingering with severe dementia. They worry about being abandoned or becoming a burden on others.
Our society can be judged by how we respond to these fears. A caring community devotes more attention, not less, to members facing the most vulnerable times in their lives. When people are tempted to see their own lives as diminished in value or meaning, they most need the love and assistance of others to assure them of their inherent worth.
The healing art of medicine is an important part of this assistance. Even when a cure is not possible, medicine plays a critical role in providing “palliative care”—alleviating pain and other symptoms and meeting basic needs. Such care should combine medical skill with attention to the emotional as well as spiritual needs of those facing the end of life.
It is never too early to have honest discussions with your family, friends and/or priest about complicated end-of-life issues. Catholics should be leaders in the effort to defend and uphold the principle that each of us has a right to live with dignity through every day of our lives. As disciples of one who is Lord of the living, we need to be messengers of the Gospel of Life. We can help build a world in which love is stronger than death.
*Excerpts from a United States Catholic Conference of Bishops document by this title.
The New Jersey Bill A1504 would allow physician-assisted suicide in New Jersey. The vote on bill A1504, scheduled for October 29, did not occur when the sponsors learned that four legislators who were to vote in favor of the bill were absent. Absentees are as good as a no vote. It is highly probable that constituent pressure caused these absences. Please renew the pressure on your Assemblymen to vote against this bill after the election.
Following are reasons for opposing physician assisted suicide:
Advocates for the disabled strongly oppose assisted suicide. They point to the lack of adequate safeguards, which could open the door to abuse, manipulation, and coercion.
Suicide is always a tragedy! Do not be misled by the seductive language of "dignity," "mercy," "compassion," or "aid in dying." True compassion does not put a lethal weapon—in this case a prescription of 100 capsules of Seconal—into the hands of a person to help take his or her life.
Compassionate care at the end of life should involve the loving support and involvement of family members. The NJ legislation does not require family notification.